nimgholkarJul 11 minLife is like a Jigsaw PuzzleI was once doing a 1000 pieces jigsaw puzzle (mind-boggling to say the least). I reached a point where no matter how hard I stared at the...
nimgholkarJun 301 minHAPPINESS IS A "DECISION"Whenever you feel life is being unfair to you, pause for a moment and remember all the times things went well. We rarely say to ourselves...
nimgholkarApr 241 minReassess your friendshipsIn the past, there were times when I declined invitations to dinner parties or social events. Not because I was ‘busy’. Rather because I ...
nimgholkarApr 242 minAn Epidemic called 'Loneliness'In ‘A Tale of Two Cities’, Charles Dickens wrote: “It was the best of times, it was the worst of times; it was the age of wisdom, it was ...
nimgholkarApr 221 minReadjusting to a new realityMother Nature understands 'transition'. She doesn't take us directly from winter to summer...She leads us there gently through spring. Th...
nimgholkarApr 151 minIN A BAD MOOD?A bad mood can have so many different causes. Maybe someone was nasty towards you; maybe an email you were hoping for never arrived; mayb...
nimgholkarApr 22 minWhy did you 'Unfriend' me?"Hey, why did you unfriend me?" I was at a social gathering a few months ago and my ears perked up on hearing this. Two women smiled arti...
nimgholkarApr 11 minMANAGING FEAR DURING A PANDEMICI know you’re afraid. We all are. Not necessarily to the same degree. And not necessarily for the same reasons. But the truth is that liv...
nimgholkarFeb 61 minWhy did you lie to me?A long time ago, a dear friend lied to me about something trivial. At first I was annoyed. Then curious. Why would she lie about somethin...
nimgholkarFeb 32 min"NO ONE EVER ASKED ME"If you've watched the Jerry Lewis movie 'The Bellboy', you may remember a scene where Stanley's (played by Lewis) boss yells at him in fr...
nimgholkarDec 29, 20193 minSometimes I annoy myself!Take a moment today to be fully honest with yourself. And ask yourself what's that one annoying/frustrating habit that you'd like to comp...
nimgholkarDec 25, 20192 minIt's your attitude...Nothing else.Walking down the crowded streets of Bali, wilting under the fierce rays of the sun, I complained grumpily to no one in particular about h...
nimgholkarDec 18, 20191 minBefore you give up...In a poignant scene from the movie 'The Pursuit of Happiness', actor Will Smith observes his son practise basketball. He then tells him n...
nimgholkarMay 10, 20191 minHOW TO ‘IMPROVE YOUR LIFE’ IN YOUR LUNCH BREAK.I’m so excited to be writing this post and sharing with you all because I truly believe that in my 23-year career in Australia, forming m...
nimgholkarMar 11, 20191 minWhen you can’t stand the office favouriteSo many people tell me that there’s one particular colleague who seems to be the boss’s favourite and always gets more attention than des...
nimgholkarSep 4, 20181 minDivision of DutiesMost people get confused about simple division of duties. So I thought I would clarify: Firstly, let’s get it clear that YOU are not exp...
nimgholkarAug 31, 20181 minDon’t just shrug…I asked your opinion.‘My husband thinks I should go back to full-time work now that the baby is 6 months old’ she said. After a pause, she added: ‘But my moth...
nimgholkarAug 26, 20182 minLetter to the SILENT OBSERVERS on social mediaDear ‘SILENT OBSERVERS’ on FB…the ones who NEVER comment on or ‘like’ my posts (or anyone else’s posts for that matter). How are you doin...
nimgholkarAug 23, 20182 minChoose the right friendsShe told me she has great plans for herself….Yet life seems to pass by and she never gets much done. Despite a supportive family, she nev...
nimgholkarAug 9, 20182 minTrying to always fit in…Sometimes I end up having the most jaw-droppingly amazing conversations. Heard one lady tell the hostess at a dinner party ‘OMG. You prep...
